Working on Ourselves

When it comes to understanding ourselves, humans tend to be a fairly confused species. This is not to say that other species really understand themselves, either. It’s likely our evolved talent for self-conscious reflection and contemplation that makes understanding ourselves even possible, as well as what’s behind our confusion – and a lot of ourContinue reading “Working on Ourselves”

The Path Through College

It is common for college students to envision their career as something that’s ahead of them, as the anticipated next step after graduation. As they make progress on their degree plan, many are secretly hoping that their credential will open the door to a job that pays well and doesn’t suck. A significant number ofContinue reading “The Path Through College”

5 Floors

Ego is just your “I,” the center of self-conscious experience that locates and manages a personal identity in the middle of everything. It’s not what is wrong with you, or the “obstacle” on your path to liberation, enlightenment, and wellbeing. In fact, none of those long-sought goals of salvation would be possible without your ego.Continue reading “5 Floors”

Once More Into Religion

Many people think that religion is about believing in god, going to church, doing the right things, and getting to heaven when you die. Every one of those elements has been contested through the centuries. Whose god? What church? Which things? Where is heaven, if not just above the clouds or over the moon? NeedlessContinue reading “Once More Into Religion”

Crossroads

Part of me really wants to believe that human destiny holds something more in store for us than just more of the same. I mean, more than just strapping ourselves inside spaceships and taking our problems somewhere else. Human destiny will entail going beyond ourselves somehow, but populating some distant planet isn’t likely to bringContinue reading “Crossroads”

Jesus and “Don Colossus”

The invitation had called it The Patriotic Dedication Ceremony for the Golden Age of America. The banners called it A Historic Tribute. The souvenir hats called it TRUMP THE GREAT. But as Jesus stood at the edge of the enormous marble plaza, listening to the brass band blare a triumphant rendition of “God Bless theContinue reading “Jesus and “Don Colossus””

A Family History of the Passions

We like to think that we act the way we do, believe what we believe, and curate a philosophy of life based on rational choices. We thought it all out and made a decision. Where we stand on things and how we feel about it is the product of careful consideration and common sense. Right.Continue reading “A Family History of the Passions”

IEDs on the Road to Civilization

In Bringing Up a Racist I detailed the steps every parent needs to take if their goal is to raise a bigot. It won’t just happen on its own. In fact, a child who is brought up in a healthy home environment will very naturally develop into a grounded, secure, kind and responsible person. So,Continue reading “IEDs on the Road to Civilization”

The College of Unconditional Love

I don’t get it perfect every time, but with practice I’m getting better. Over the years working in higher education with students who are trying to find their path, I’ve come to understand what they are seeking as “vocational clarity” – not a major, not an occupation even, but a freely chosen path of purposeContinue reading “The College of Unconditional Love”

The Wonder of It All

What our planet of nations needs, almost more than anything else right now, is a shared image of existence – a sacred mandala that can guide a deeper contemplation of the universe and of our own human nature. If we had such an understanding of ourselves and all things, I am sure that most ifContinue reading “The Wonder of It All”