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A View on Religion

23 Nov

I have a friend who’s in midlife and struggling with the creeping irrelevancy (my term) of his religious beliefs. His personal history with religion (Christianity) doesn’t go all the way back into childhood, but it’s deep enough to have been a significant force in shaping his adult worldview. He and his wife raised their children in a denomination committed to staying as close as possible to the New Testament church model.

It’s probably fair to say that he’s never been in full agreement with the positions his religion has taken with respect to sexual ethics, gender equality, cultural engagement, or truth in religion. But it allowed for some flexibility, at least in the private holding of his individual faith. Over the years, his involvement in church connected him to other believers who became good friends. They raised their kids together and shared a lot of life.

As his doubts rise over the real truth-value of his particular brand of religion, my friend is wondering if there’s truth in any religion. Over the past half-decade, he and his wife have stepped out of church-going. Their children are adults and out of the house, making choices of their own regarding religious affiliation and faith practice. So the obligation of raising a family in a supportive community with clear moral values can be released.

But they still get together with the same friends, only now their conversations are becoming increasingly strained and uncomfortable – particularly as they orbit around issues of doctrine, the Bible, and exclusive salvation in Christ alone. My observation is that he’s also struggling somewhat with the metaphysical assumptions that have invisibly supported his fading convictions.

If you no longer believe in heaven and hell as destinations of the soul, is it necessary to give up believing in the soul? If you are having second thoughts around the claim of exclusive salvation, does the notion of salvation itself need to be abandoned? And if the very idea of a god “up there,” “out there” and external to the world feels contrived and irrelevant to daily life, is atheism the only alternative?

My friend is searching for a new vocabulary that can adequately articulate his evolving spirituality and connect it meaningfully to his life-world. He is understandably concerned that his unwillingness to simply accept as truth what he once believed, and what his church friends still believe, will alienate him from people he doesn’t want to lose from his life.

Of course, many of us arrive at points along the way where the strength of a relationship is tested by our differences over important matters. Religion, politics and morality are frequently powder-keg topics that have a reputation of blowing apart long-standing friendships. Each of us needs to come to terms with how much trust, acceptance, accommodation and forgiveness we are willing to invest in any relationship.

If I reject you just because your beliefs have changed and no longer match my own, can I really be said to have known and accepted you for who you are?

This “new vocabulary” my friend is seeking is also something that I’ve been trying to work out over the years since stepping out of professional church ministry. Here’s something that’s become an essential starting point for me, in order to set up a fruitful conversation about religion, truth, and experience.

Religions are mystically convergent, but doctrinally divergent.

ReligionLook into the center of the picture above. Soon enough you’ll begin to see the pupil of an eye dilating and contracting as it stares back at you. That center represents what I call mystical experience. Like a black-hole pulling you through and beyond the world you think you know, the mystical experience transpires in a place that is “no place.” And yet, this now and here (now/here, nowhere) is the starting point of your existence.

The term exist literally means “to stand out,” and what you stand out from is the present source and support of your being. Mystics name this source “the ground (of being),” and experiencing it is to experience the present mystery of reality itself, the deep creative support of all things – including, of course, your life in this moment.

Authentic religion (Latin religare, “to tie back”) is motivated out of a desire to tie the business of daily life back to this Source. As a constructivist I see it as a way of keeping the mental construct of my world connected to reality, the really real. This tie-back operates in opposition to another impulse in religion, which is to fly out into the symbols, stories, theories and farther abstractions (like metaphysics) that express and explain what it all means.

I understand that not all religions have their roots in mystical experience, but my contention is that every true religion does – or at least once did, at its birth. A founder, or founding community, was inspired or disturbed by an experience of the real presence of mystery, which called for a new way of being and behaving in the world. This means that all (true) religions are mystically convergent – that is to say, they share a common ground and have their roots in essentially the same experience of mystery.

But then, the other impulse – to express and explain – takes us into the more provincial way that each religion interprets this experience of mystery into the web of meaning that connects it to the concerns of its present generation. Every community and its larger culture has a history, with all the factors of ancestry, language, geography, politics, and worldview that make it unique. If the experience of mystery is to make sense and have meaning, then it must be translated into this cultural vocabulary.

The founder of Buddhism translated his experience of mystery into a vocabulary of appearance and essence, attachment and release, illusion and enlightenment, suffering and the way of compassion. Centuries later, the founder of Christianity translated the experience (his own, not someone else’s) into a vocabulary of law and love, separation and communion, identity and inclusion, justice and unconditional forgiveness.

As you follow just these two examples of present-day world religions, your investigation will take you farther out along their divergent paths. “Nirvana” (the liberated state after selfish craving has been extinguished) is not in the Christian vocabulary, and neither is “kingdom of God” (the inclusive community of neighborly love) in the Buddhist. The farther out you go, the more divergent the paths become.

So where is truth, then? This is where my friend’s personal struggle is focused. Too many people are trying to work out this question of truth in religion at the far-out periphery of my illustration above. Their assumption is that truth is a matter of how accurate the terms (doctrines) are to the reality they describe. There comes a point, however – represented in the ring of clouds or smoke at the outer edge – where the pursuit of doctrinal clarity and precision eventually produces the opposite in a hopeless confusion of terms. (This is typically where sects, schools, and denominations take off on their separate tracks.)

To stay with my examples, either Christianity or Buddhism is the “true religion,” but not both. (Of course, a Muslim who’s caught in this same way of framing the issue, will claim that neither one is true. His own religion of Islam is the true and only way, while these others are mistaken and dangerous lies.) Truth, according to this approach, is doctrinal and all about accuracy. Who’s telling the truth? Who’s got the story right? Who’s getting saved in the end?

One problem with this line of questioning is that (as I explored in a recent post) each of these religions in its present form might be quite far off the path of its original teaching. When Buddhists, Christians or Muslims do violence against each other or their own, then it’s rather apparent that they have betrayed the revelation of their founders. It might well be the case that we are comparing somewhat (or entirely) corrupt versions of these distinct religions, which makes the project of sifting for truth especially problematic.

But here’s my point. Truth is not about how well our words and definitions match up to the present mystery of reality. The very nature of meaning is that it’s constructed (made up, put together) and conventional (supported in the agreements that a people hold in common), which also implies that meaning is relative to the context and needs to be relevant to actual life. When it ceases to be relevant – when the vocabulary and its worldview, along with the metaphysical assumptions that lie behind it, lose their connection to everyday life – should we just throw it aside and start looking for another? This is what some people are doing these days.

Or maybe we should make ourselves believe it anyway, attributing the feeling of creeping irrelevancy to our ignorance or lack of faith. If our rescue from this world and everlasting security in the life hereafter depends on getting it right, then you’d better believe it – even (or perhaps especially) if it doesn’t make sense. It’s all a mystery we can’t understand. Don’t jeopardize your salvation in your selfish insistence that religion should make a difference in this life.

I would respond to my friend this way: The beginning of true religion, as well as its proper end, is in the mystical experience where you find your ground and release yourself to the greater reality to which you belong. This experience of real presence, of the present mystery, of the really real in this moment invites you deeper into life. As you awaken to the present moment, to this moment of presence, to the Eternal Now, your neurotic compulsions will gradually relax and fall away. In that moment you will come to realize that here and now is all there is. In the real presence of mystery, all is one.

Now your task is to make sense of it, constructing a meaning to the mystery that will help you stay grounded and connected. That will be your religion. It might look a lot like the one you’ve been in for a while, but now with a refreshed relevance for having been reconciled to the same mystery that inspired Jesus so long ago. Or it might look very different.

The responsibility is yours to translate the mystery into meaning. But stay close to the mystery. Meaning will always change, as it must if relevancy is your concern.

I support you in that quest, for it is my quest as well.

 
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Posted by on November 23, 2013 in Post-theism/New Humanism

 

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9 responses to “A View on Religion

  1. Shari Martin

    November 23, 2013 at 10:00 am

    And my quest as well. Thank you for defining it so beautifully.

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  2. Richard

    November 23, 2013 at 11:49 pm

    Thanks for this exploration. It resonates for me following my own recent musing of the tension between the theology/doctrine of faith and how/if it ends up limiting the doing that comes from deep places of awareness! http://mayawalk.ca/blog-a-deacons-musingthe-doing/

     
  3. tractsofrevolution

    November 24, 2013 at 7:17 am

    Thanks, Richard. There are many of us seeking a way back into the experience without having to leave behind the things that have been valuable to us along the way. Often times what seems like an either/or choice can become so much more when we are committed to reflecting more deeply and talking through our struggle more honestly with others on the path. I appreciate your reach-out!

     
  4. Richard

    November 24, 2013 at 8:29 am

    And I too appreciate your reply – I am also struck by the gift that this new and emergent time is. Not so much for the possible danger of making our own religion – per se – but the gift to dig deep into the paradox of living in a both/and world with integrity and intention. Hope that makes sense. Thanks again!

     
  5. Rex M.

    November 25, 2013 at 11:46 am

    John, so wonderfully written. You know I struggle with words containing more than 2 syllables, but I think I am following this one.
    Does the question “is there truth in any religion’ mean the same thing as “is there truth in all religions”? Is this simply two ways of asking the same question? To me, truth no longer appears to be black and white. It is no longer bright, like a McDonald’s sign, but more subdued, like a marijuana store sign. It feels more the color of a bruise. Purple, with some hints of red and flesh tones mixed in here and there. It is no longer “this book contains all Truth, accept it or perish……brother!” To me, truth, and/or seeking truth, is no longer a one-directional pursuit but more akin to the role an Atlas map plays in long summer road trips: Many roads, interstates, highways, bi-ways……many destinations……..many rest stops……many varying speed limits…….many tourist attractions……..many potty breaks……many moments of getting lost even while looking at the dang map!
    If the vehicle used to propel me on this mysterious journey is made of love I can’t go wrong (imagine: Love Bug). I can’t. Love never fails. Right? It is like an intense courting of the unknown with a deep and intense connection to the here and now. Almost sexual. Sort of. A clean and penetrating experience…without the need to smoke a cigarette after each encounter.
    Refreshed relevancy is a great term John. I may steal it and claim it as my own. I want to (and plan to) stay connected to my friend Jesus as he was/is so connected to living in the mystery. In fact, he is a/the mystery. In my deconstruction of turning rigid, prideful knowledge and hyper-exclusive country club contracts over to the process of mystery I wonder if I might push Jesus out? “Baby with the bath water” type of thing. My next step is to develop a healthy relationship with him instead of using him as my most excellent hiding place in this fascinating game of life.
    Thanks for making me think…again. Oh, and just so you know, this thinking thing hurts my brain sometimes.

     
    • tractsofrevolution

      November 25, 2013 at 12:27 pm

      Thanks, Rex. A delight to read, as usual. It sounded to me that my friend is struggling not just with the possibility that all religions might be true, but that none could be. The first question often comes around when we’re a bit younger and starting to learn about other worldviews and belief systems. At midlife, however, it is quite common for individuals to begin doubting the very notion of “truth in religion.” Perhaps it’s ALL superstition, tribal politics, or blind tradition. How can you tell? I’ve come to respect this as an “existential crisis” that deserves serious reflection rather than a quick answer.

      Glad to know you’re on the quest! Keep thinking … but not too much. Remember, the mystery is “here before you know it.”

       
  6. Rex M.

    November 26, 2013 at 9:43 am

    I read an article on blog site “Hacking Christianity” related to Pope Francis’ views on ‘who is in, who is out’ and contained within was a close description of the above: It could be that we all worship incomplete pictures of God and will only have the whole painting laid out for us someday in the future. Do you think that the ‘mystery’ is equivalent to something that is described in terms of ‘incomplete’, or, is the mystery void of ‘complete/incomplete’ analogies….?

     
    • tractsofrevolution

      November 26, 2013 at 10:24 am

      That’s a great question. As a constructivist, I regard our concepts and representations of god as part of our irresistible need to make our experience of mystery meaningful. And yet, the farther into meaning we go, the farther removed we are from a direct and spontaneous experience of the present mystery. So I lean more toward your second option: mystery is devoid of meaning (i.e., is inherently meaningless) because it is prior to and always deeper than our various attempts at expressing/explaining it. This is why the mystics speak of (which they recognize as paradoxical) mystery as emptiness. From the vantage-point of our meaning-making mind it defies meaning (and so is semantically empty); while as the present mystery, it is “real presence.”

      We need to be careful (in my opinion) and always a bit skeptical of the claim that “some day” we will have the mystery fully decoded and entirely understood (“complete picture”). To me, that’s ‘only’ more meaning, but no longer mystery. Finally, it’s about experience and not explanation.

       
      • Rex M.

        November 26, 2013 at 1:23 pm

        I now think I like a rigid, “complete understanding in everything” approach better. It is so much easier. I am giving up on the mystery and going back to church. Kidding.

         

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